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Title: I Was Making Progress ~ Post by: Saradane on May 01, 2016, 11:39:19 AM I felt like I as getting closer to getting my eBPDgf back. I felt like we've made so much progress, and then today, I felt like it was all washed away.
I saw her last night. It was two days in a row that we saw each other. I validated her feelings about the situation, she was starting to believe me, we kissed, I was making promises, it was great! Then she said that she needed more space and that it was her fault because she kept reaching out to me. She's distracted, and getting attention elsewhere. She's buying a new puppy today, things like that. I just called her and experienced massive rejection. What do I do now? I'm taking care of myself, but she's so adamant about not getting back together again. She starts to buy into the idea, then shuts it off. Title: Re: I Was Making Progress ~ Post by: Turkish on May 01, 2016, 09:42:44 PM Confusing signals. Have you flat out asked her what does she want to do? Equivocation is a reflection of ever-changing emotions. Do you feel like you're tip-toeing around the subject, letting her drive this?
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