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Title: Meed advice Post by: Dup007 on May 02, 2016, 07:40:36 AM Hi
Just need to talk to someone. My wife and I have not been living together now for 3 months. Now we started going good again. But one day she will text me all these nice things and we will gobdobstuff together. Next moment i amntold what failure i am and she does not want to see me again. 1 or 2 days later she will text me nice things again. I dont want to lose her as i love her bery much. I want to help her if there is something wrong. :'( Title: Re: Meed advice Post by: waverider on May 03, 2016, 01:43:13 AM Welcome Dup007
It is very confusing and frustrating when people with BPD exhibit these extremes of push pull behaviors. How long as she been this way, and are there any particular triggers that set her of more than others? A previous discussion on push/pull What does it mean, "push/pull"? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=99725.0) Most of us experience this at times. It is important to realize that is not about us, it is about themselves waverider |