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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: GoingBack2OC on May 10, 2016, 07:59:44 PM



Title: Thirteen Words...
Post by: GoingBack2OC on May 10, 2016, 07:59:44 PM
"The more you say, the less people remember. The fewer the words, the greater the profit."  -- Felelon


I've been posting here for quite some time. Many of you have given me really helpful advice, support, and so many of you have reminded me I am not alone in this.

This topic, is about you, it's about all of us. It a snapshot of our deepest sorrows, challenges, heartaches, broken dreams, or perhaps even triumphs, perhaps good came out of the darkness you were forced to endure.

Whatever it is you choose to share, it must be communicated to us in Under Thirteen Words.

In under thirteen words, thirteen words only, share with us, the most significant, painful, enlightening, powerful, heartbreaking aspect, of your experience in loving, or losing someone because of BPD.

Your thirteen words can be anything. Something you feel, something they did, something you did, how you feel, hurt, wronged, betrayed, or how you found strength you didn't know you had.

It can be something they said, it can be something you said- or did. It can even be something you'd say to them- if they could hear you- just once, to really hear you, and to for just once understand; and perhaps they would change because of it.

Your thirteen words can be anything at all. But it can be only Thirteen Words.

I have chosen the number Thirteen because the person I love, who is affected by un-diagnosed BPD, considers this her lucky number. And that for most, the number 13 is assimilated with being just the opposite.

To keep this thread as condensed as possible - do not quote this post. Only REPLY to the topic.

Thirteen Words... .


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: GaGrl on May 10, 2016, 08:10:37 PM
In every relationship, one loves more.  With us, you're the one loving more.


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: GoingBack2OC on May 10, 2016, 08:18:41 PM
I can't hate you. I've tried. It'd be easier I think, than loving.


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: C.Stein on May 10, 2016, 08:26:30 PM
If a moment in time could be frozen, let it be loving you.

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Thank you for allowing me to love you and to experience true love.


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: ArleighBurke on May 10, 2016, 10:04:42 PM
You are loved! But you won't feel that until you believe it yourself.


No amount of my love can ever fill your bottomless bucket.


Imagine who you would be if you were uncaged!


Let me love you.


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: steelwork on May 10, 2016, 11:20:16 PM
He really never knew me, so how could he have loved me?


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: tryingsome on May 11, 2016, 12:13:21 AM
love is a different viewpoint between two people.


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: Jazzy on May 11, 2016, 01:51:07 AM
How could you do this to me when you knew I adored you.



Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: Ahoy on May 11, 2016, 02:46:51 AM
Broken heart. Lessons taught will turn me into the man I'm destined to be.

14 words, puck it



Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: Larmoyant on May 11, 2016, 02:50:44 AM
You said, “I moved on, or tried to”. I can’t come back now.


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: ChangingOfTides on May 12, 2016, 06:17:35 AM
while our love was theatrical it worked, when it became real, you got scared


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: Sunfl0wer on May 12, 2016, 07:25:05 AM
Reality.           elusive

IDenTITy.        fluid

'IN'san'IT'y.      subjective

self.           unknown

Present                       avoided

Narratives         COMPOSED



                   
Impermanence                    


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: MapleBob on May 15, 2016, 11:55:07 AM
I wish I could love you again, but you don't really exist, right?


Title: Re: Thirteen Words...
Post by: sweet tooth on May 15, 2016, 12:57:48 PM
It's about your will.

You hurt me badly, but I love you still.