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Title: Sent my pregnant exBPD baby items Post by: drummerboy5 on May 27, 2016, 12:30:47 PM Recap: I haven't seen my exBPD since feb and only talked to her a handful of times since I left in December. Well today I ordered some newborn clothes and diapers and sent them via mail to her house. I hope it doesn't trigger her to were she goes off on me? I just wanted to help and the baby which will be here next month...
I'm not sure what she's told her family, but I also wanted them to know that I'm not a POS like my ex has said to me before. I want her family to know that I've always wanted to do the right thing and I'm here to be in my child's life and help support my child. Title: Re: Sent my pregnant exBPD baby items Post by: Mutt on May 27, 2016, 05:54:11 PM Hi drummerboy,
Your exBPDgf likely had you split black, I'm going to guess that she had nothing good to say about you? I was split black when my ex wife left and she was telling our friends and family that I was abusive. For all I know they probably still believe that I was abusive and all of her exes, I would hope that at some point somebody will ask why is she making the same choices ? That said. I don't have to prove myself to my ex or ex in-laws because my relationship is with my kids and not with them. If you're a good dad it is reflected in your relationship with your kids and friends, families and strangers will pick up in that. Somebody's opinion of you doesn't define who you are. Title: Re: Sent my pregnant exBPD baby items Post by: drummerboy5 on May 27, 2016, 07:11:42 PM Hi drummerboy, Your exBPDgf likely had you split black, I'm going to guess that she had nothing good to say about you? I was split black when my ex wife left and she was telling our friends and family that I was abusive. For all I know they probably still believe that I was abusive and all of her exes, I would hope that at some point somebody will ask why is she making the same choices ? That said. I don't have to prove myself to my ex or ex in-laws because my relationship is with my kids and not with them. If you're a good dad it is reflected in your relationship with your kids and friends, families and strangers will pick up in that. Somebody's opinion of you doesn't define who you are. Im the one that left, but she was treating me like crap. she named the child without me, had allowed me at one one doc appt even tho I've paid for the appts, so I wanted to get the baby some stuff and help get her started. I don't speak with her because it's always a fight and me being blamed for causing problems lol. Title: Re: Sent my pregnant exBPD baby items Post by: Hadlee on May 27, 2016, 10:29:18 PM Hey drummerboy5
I gather you found out the baby is yours? |