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Title: A very cruel test Post by: Ahoy on May 31, 2016, 08:32:31 AM Hows this for a little test.
My ex definitely cheated on me with my replacement. It also became clear she cheated on me with a person from her emergency services volunteer unit (I think this was a one night thing) just as she was starting to devalue me. Now I work for the government (emergency services) and every 6 months, people who earn awards take part in a big ceremony together, get their awards a tonce and it's a nice day. So this guy got an award for something and they put a big group picture on our government intranet homepage. So EVERY TIME I open a web browser at work for the next ~2 weeks, I'll be welcomed to a picture of the guy who cheated on my wife... .not cool life... . So my first reaction is just exasperation. It's bad enough I'll be moving to a town of 40K people soon where he lives and I'll occasionally bump into him in the streets (I guess) but this is very unfortunate! My plan? Use it as a tool to detach further. I'm not going to let it affect my work day. I'm going to ignore it and try to ignore any thoughts it stirs up. Title: Re: A very cruel test Post by: Hadlee on May 31, 2016, 08:39:25 AM Does he know that you know?
I would be so so tempted to give him a "knowing" smart a$$ smirk when I saw him lol That would make anyone squirm! Title: Re: A very cruel test Post by: C.Stein on May 31, 2016, 08:46:53 AM So EVERY TIME I open a web browser at work for the next ~2 weeks, I'll be welcomed to a picture of the guy who cheated on my wife... .not cool life... . Change the default home page of the browser to "blank page" then you won't have to look at that nonsense. Title: Re: A very cruel test Post by: Ahoy on May 31, 2016, 08:48:45 AM Does he know that you know? I would be so so tempted to give him a "knowing" smart a$$ smirk when I saw him lol That would make anyone squirm! Yeah found his number I called him directly and confronted him about it. It was the 10 most awkward minutes of him telling me to talk to my ex-wife about it. I just basically told him if nothing happened just tell me instead of stalling so much. Then I told him he had no integrity for not telling me the truth and that was it. I didn't feel good it was awkward for both of us =( Title: Re: A very cruel test Post by: Hadlee on May 31, 2016, 08:54:06 AM Does he know that you know? I would be so so tempted to give him a "knowing" smart a$$ smirk when I saw him lol That would make anyone squirm! Yeah found his number I called him directly and confronted him about it. It was the 10 most awkward minutes of him telling me to talk to my ex-wife about it. I just basically told him if nothing happened just tell me instead of stalling so much. Then I told him he had no integrity for not telling me the truth and that was it. I didn't feel good it was awkward for both of us =( Ugh yeah that does sound awkward. I like C.Stein's advise to change your home page |iiii Title: Re: A very cruel test Post by: C.Stein on May 31, 2016, 08:55:35 AM It was the 10 most awkward minutes of him telling me to talk to my ex-wife about it. That is as good as an admission of guilt in my book. Title: Re: A very cruel test Post by: Ahoy on May 31, 2016, 08:59:35 AM It was the 10 most awkward minutes of him telling me to talk to my ex-wife about it. That is as good as an admission of guilt in my book. Oh yeah I told him that too. If you had nothing to hide it would be a 2 minute phone call max. I'll try the blank page suggestion. I hope it doesnt try and tell me I need administrator privelage to alter it. |