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Title: It's over... Post by: JerryRG on June 02, 2016, 10:05:02 PM It's over
It's done My heart is one I've finally released my heart I let her go I've found someone else Who's much more fun Someone I can always trust Someone funny and nice and especially kind Someone giving, and loyal and generous Grateful, mature and hard working Someone I can talk to who listens without judgement Someone fair and understanding A wondeful person and I don't know how I never knew before I'm in love This person will never leave me And this is something I know Because This person Is Me... . I never knew accepting myself unconditionally Loving myself unconditionally Could Ever Feel So Right And So Good. Thank you God For revealing this to me No more saving anyone I'm just going to love them, Like I love myself. Title: Re: It's over... Post by: JerryRG on June 03, 2016, 06:36:17 AM I hope I don't sound like a narcissist, the point is I love my life and myself and getting healthier and learning about bounderies. If I love and respect myself I won't let others take advantage of me or get myself in awful relationships.
I'm just loving life right now and I've taken back all the power I gave my exgf, she cannot hurt me because only I have the power to hurt myself. I'm certainly my worst enemy at times. Took 7 months but it is worth it. Title: Re: It's over... Post by: freemanstrut on June 03, 2016, 07:43:12 AM Glad you're feeling well! Don't second-guess yourself.
Title: Re: It's over... Post by: heartandwhole on June 03, 2016, 08:48:01 AM Hi JerryRG,
No, you don't sound like a narcissist at all lol ! Revel in your newfound self-love—it's what everyone on this planet is looking for. |iiii The blow of a deep loss can do such a number on our self-esteem; I'm glad you are feeling good about yourself and your life now. Keep on sharing your insights with us—we need and love good news here! heartandwhole Title: Re: It's over... Post by: Lucky Jim on June 03, 2016, 09:34:23 AM Excerpt If I love and respect myself I won't let others take advantage of me or get myself in awful relationships. You put that well, JerryRG. You could also say that loving yourself means that you will never allow yourself to be the victim of someone else's verbal or physical abuse. It also means that you will eschew self-destructive behavior. It's a great starting point. Don't forget to include self-acceptance, just the way you are. LuckyJim Title: Re: It's over... Post by: JerryRG on June 03, 2016, 10:25:23 AM Thanks everyone
Life is what we make it. I'm still growing up and I'm so excited that I have the opportunity to be involved here in these forums and AA and Alanon and Church. It's never too late to change the road you're on Each day presents me with unique opportunity to grow and learn, make choices and hope my character defects will be removed. God didn't ask us to be better, He asked us to be like Him, perfect! That is my goal, I know I won't achieve it here on earth but none the less I'm called to be my best, and concidering what I've been given how can I now try? |