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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: Duck_Borders on June 04, 2016, 06:05:45 AM



Title: "Pleasant Small Talk" by Lawyer, Judge, GM, Guardian
Post by: Duck_Borders on June 04, 2016, 06:05:45 AM
This is just a vent, but thought I'd get other people's thoughts.

Has anyone noticed the ridiculous small talk that these "professionals" do before, during, and after a court date?  They sit around jib jabbing about complete BS, and then suddenly get into a serious court case often yelling and arguing with one another.

In my case, they're literally trying to destroy my life.  Because I own a small company, the opposing counsel is trying to artificially inflate my income 10 x.  I think the GM and Guardian both know that there is something wrong with my uPDx, but their "hands are tied" by the system.

And they sit around laughing and joking about their recent fundraisers or upcoming bachelor parties in vegas... .  it's really disgusting.  It's actually psychopathic behaviour.

My small business does fire and flood restoration.  I talk with customers all the time who have just had their live's and homes destroyed.  I'm always sympathetic with them.  On the job sites I run into many of my colleagues that I go for lunch with or I'm friends with.  We don't get all excited and happy and start talking about the game or going on a trip in front of someone who has just suffered so greatly. 

Just thought I'd see if anyone else has noticed this.

Good luck to you all!

Duck