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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: FallBack!Monster on June 18, 2016, 03:47:38 PM



Title: Things you have or have had to change in your life since
Post by: FallBack!Monster on June 18, 2016, 03:47:38 PM
I have had to change jobs.

Cell number... .not bc of her directly, but because all of a sudden I get lots of unavailable and other unknown calls.

I'm working on relocating

I've had to change my accounts and put them under someone else name.

I have bought back some needed stuff, pay for somethings that she damaged.

My peoples never left me, but I have had to reestablish some things.

Oh and now I read a lot more than i use to... .about disorders as well as other informative subjects.  That's a good thing.


Title: Re: Things you have or have had to change in your life since
Post by: thisagain on June 18, 2016, 05:17:48 PM
Wow. Have you considered a restraining order or seeking police protection?

Many of us have faced challenges getting our lives back after the breakup. Rediscovering our hobbies, rebuilding friendships, relearning self care, etc. But what you're describing sounds more like trying to escape stalking.


Title: Re: Things you have or have had to change in your life since
Post by: FallBack!Monster on June 18, 2016, 06:18:36 PM
Wow. Have you considered a restraining order or seeking police protection?

Many of us have faced challenges getting our lives back after the breakup. Rediscovering our hobbies, rebuilding friendships, relearning self care, etc. But what you're describing sounds more like trying to escape stalking.

Sure, I bought a retraining order.  Police protection no. not even thinking of it.


Title: Re: Things you have or have had to change in your life since
Post by: sweet tooth on June 18, 2016, 08:17:29 PM
Wow. Have you considered a restraining order or seeking police protection?

Many of us have faced challenges getting our lives back after the breakup. Rediscovering our hobbies, rebuilding friendships, relearning self care, etc. But what you're describing sounds more like trying to escape stalking.

Sure, I bought a retraining order.  Police protection no. not even thinking of it.

What's the difference?