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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: kc sunshine on June 21, 2016, 04:40:45 PM



Title: Feeling myself
Post by: kc sunshine on June 21, 2016, 04:40:45 PM
Today is the first day I've felt like myself since the breakup-- hopefully this is a harbinger of things to come instead of just the eye of the storm. Fingers crossed!


Title: Re: Feeling myself
Post by: Sadly on June 21, 2016, 04:57:03 PM
Everything crossed for you KC, it's a good thing you have done today   xx


Title: Re: Feeling myself
Post by: joeramabeme on June 21, 2016, 07:06:30 PM
Yes it is a harbinger.  It starts with a few minutes, goes to a few hours and eventually a day and then more.  I am at the daily level now but will say it takes a lot of work and focus.

Congrats to you! 

KC and The Sunshine Band!


Title: Re: Feeling myself
Post by: heartandwhole on June 22, 2016, 10:41:04 AM
That's the way, uh huh, uh huh !   |iiii  Go, kc!


Title: Re: Feeling myself
Post by: kc sunshine on June 22, 2016, 05:11:49 PM
Thanks you guys    ! Today wasn't as great as yesterday, and I felt myself angry at her and ruminating again a bit. But not too bad, all in all, manageable, and worlds better than last week. I made it until almost 5 pm without checking her facebook (yesterday I didn't check it at all!) It's been 5 days NC.