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Title: Thank you stbx BPD wife for helping me detach Post by: Wize on July 13, 2016, 08:17:49 PM BPD wife contacted my attorney today and threatened to have me charged with child abuse and spousal abuse. She also accused me of various other crimes. The accusations are a little scary(and false) but dang has this helped me detach and understand that this person is dangerous and will never be a part of my life again. Thanks wifey poo for the kick in the butt.
Title: Re: Thank you stbx BPD wife for helping me detach Post by: drained1996 on July 13, 2016, 11:18:22 PM How BPD of her... .
Title: Re: Thank you stbx BPD wife for helping me detach Post by: Wize on July 13, 2016, 11:31:05 PM My lawyer actually represented my wife's last husband, so she's pretty keen on her shenanigans. I did however remind my attorney today that my wife is dangerous, not to be underestimated and not to be trusted ever.
Here's some more classic BPD behavior; My wife and I were in talks together and had agreed to not hire lawyers and work out the settlement agreement between the two of us. So my wife presented her demands and when I came back and attempted to compromise with her she refused any further discussions. Now she's in the middle of a nasty divorce when all she had to do was compromise just a little bit. For her it's win or lose, black or white. Giving even an inch to me would mean total defeat for her. Can you say "irrational?" |