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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Lilyroze on July 26, 2016, 07:33:52 PM



Title: Oddest reality or lie
Post by: Lilyroze on July 26, 2016, 07:33:52 PM
 I use to help my ex with his resumes and things like that.

He ended up getting hurt years ago, so had time off, much hospital time, very ill, almost dying one point. Had to take care of lots for him etc. Wanted to go back to work did, quit, very ill etc. During this time he did consulting for small point.  Long time ill. Gets job due to disability in a way ( been there some time now)  HE changed his resume to seem like he was there whole time. Now, sbxUBPD doesn't understand why they are upset at him. He was not there in those divisions during that time, hospital etc. He is mad as well he did consult a few times, and is there now, so what is the difference he has been asking? To top off puts it up at their request so of course they would see. Does he not get it?

So many things he is in a whole different reality. It is so strange.


Title: Re: Oddest reality or lie
Post by: married21years on July 27, 2016, 03:06:47 AM
they actually believe their lies are reality

to do otherwise is too painful


Title: Re: Oddest reality or lie
Post by: bus boy on July 27, 2016, 04:00:49 AM
Hi Lilyroze. I've often brought up abusive things my ex wife did and said to me and she would look me in the face and say don't know what your talking about, that never happened. She had s9 crying his eyes out, threatening to take him home from one of my access visits, s9 was begging her to let him stay with me. She denies it ever happened.