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Title: I just wrote a list to myself - READ THIS WHEN FEELING WEAK Post by: bestintentions on September 09, 2016, 03:21:42 PM MULTIPLE unprotected casual sexual partners in the last two months
Impulsive spending Fantasies that you will never live up to Constantly seeks male attention Consistently lied to you to cover up behaviors Infidelities Irrational when upset Silent treatment when behavior is questioned “Love” is not selfless love you are capable of feeling She used you to avoid responsibilities Lied about affair in 2011 Had another affair during school that you helped make possible “I want to be with you but I don’t know how” Childlike behavior Selfish Unwilling to help with household duties You were her “knight in shining armor” - she was not yours Said she’d be there for you forever and care for you during illness Concerns not reciprocated - “you love yourself you don’t need me” Projected falsehoods to your family members before leaving Passive-aggressiveness Your willingness to help her has only hurt YOU and left you feeling emptiness Had an affair during planning of and maintained contact throughout your daughter’s wedding Done NOTHING to facilitate divorce - you’ve done EVERYTHING What do you guys think? I'm sure many others can post their own bi Title: Re: I just wrote a list to myself - READ THIS WHEN FEELING WEAK Post by: joeramabeme on September 09, 2016, 04:21:15 PM looks good bestintentions, it is helpful to have a list of why the r/s did not work for you.
I would add not wanting to be verbally assaulted any longer... . |