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Title: damage control Post by: here4help on September 29, 2016, 09:52:16 PM hi
ending a 4 mo relationship... ."she moved on" the hate and blocking is in full force... .the remains of the smearing has caused me problems... .could I ever get her to help me resolve these issues? Title: Re: damage control Post by: Naughty Nibbler on September 29, 2016, 10:33:58 PM Welcome here4help: Sorry about the situation with your ex. Smear campaigns can be very frustrating and damaging. Was your ex diagnosed with BPD? What type of smearing took place and what would she have to do to resolve the issues? If she is the one who "moved on", do you have any thoughts on what might be her reason for the smear campaign. Title: Re: damage control Post by: hollow on September 29, 2016, 10:37:26 PM A friend of mine once told me, "she's not part of the solution." I suggest finding other means of resolving the issues she created.
Title: Re: damage control Post by: here4help on September 29, 2016, 11:37:38 PM Thank you. It had gotten very rocky however no matter what it's always you abandoning them ... .
Then it just becomes a retaliation... .anger. Title: Re: damage control Post by: Turkish on September 29, 2016, 11:43:37 PM What kind of problems? At work, with mutual friends or other legal issues?
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