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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: xDash on September 30, 2016, 03:14:04 AM



Title: Accurate description
Post by: xDash on September 30, 2016, 03:14:04 AM
It has been 3 weeks today since my partner ghosted me. I still feel very hurt but reading all the post of these lovely people on here give me hope and courage that better things will come up. Just thought I'd post this lyrics, very heart wrenching but so similar to how many of us feel.
Big hugs everyone  


Running through the heat heart beat
You shine like silver in the sunlight
You light up my cold heart
It feels right in the sun, the sun
We're running around and around
Like nothing else could matter in our life
But wait, but wait, but wait
The sun will stop shining soon
And you'll be dark in my life
Yeah, you'll be gone, it's as simple as a change of heart
But I'm not gonna think about the future
A love like this won't last forever
I know that a love like this won't last forever
But I, I don't really mind, I don't really mind at all
Slipping into the night love
It grows dark but you don't mind
Hiding in the back streets, yeah, you'll never notice me
All that I was thinking about was cleaning up my conscience
Lost in the memory as it shakes up the corners of my heart
Was it my mistake?
Or maybe it was just as simple as a change in your heart
Just as simple as a change in your heart
I know now a love like this won't last forever
I know that a love like this won't last forever
But I, I know that a love like this won't last forever
I know that a love like this won't last forever
But I, and I
I don't mind at all
A love like this won't last forever
A love like this, a love like this
A love like this won't last forever

Kodaline - Love like this
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Title: Re: Accurate description
Post by: Sadly on September 30, 2016, 03:29:31 AM
Well done xdash, another day got through, tiny steps lead eventually to giant strides. Thanks for the lyrics, they do indeed resonate. Big   to you x


Title: Re: Accurate description
Post by: xDash on September 30, 2016, 03:45:51 AM
Thank you Sadly. I'm very much trying so, although it seems the emptiness becomes worse as time goes by  x


Title: Re: Accurate description
Post by: Sadly on September 30, 2016, 03:55:25 AM
Yes xdash, I have heard here many times it often gets worse before it gets better. Also I have fallen into the recycle trap several times, despite what I have learned here. Am fighting it desperately now. However there comes a point when enough is enough and you will know it too.  We all deal with thing differently to a degree despite the similarities of how we suffer. The people here are warm and understanding and when I came to admit my shame at not being strong enough to be dragged back in they lifted me until I felt no shame. Spend as long as you can here and remember you are loved.
  x


Title: Re: Accurate description
Post by: xDash on September 30, 2016, 06:05:15 AM
I have no idea whether he will try to recycle... Part of my hopes he does, even though I shouldn't... x


Title: Re: Accurate description
Post by: Sadly on September 30, 2016, 06:07:59 AM
I know that feeling very well. Keep reading and learning and be prepared, that the only advice I can give you love.   x