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Title: Break up Post by: lewdog100 on October 11, 2016, 01:50:29 PM My gf with BPD broke up with me.
I was trying to control her and tame her when she wanted to go out drinking etc. I had trust issues as she cheated on me a while back. At the time I didn't realise how controlling i was being until it was too late. I want her back. How do i do this? Title: Re: break uo Post by: Meili on October 11, 2016, 03:36:24 PM *welcome*
Trust issues and controlling behaviors have destroyed more than a few relationships around here, mine included. That being said, the best advice that I have to give you is to take a step back to give her some time and space, breath, and focus on you and why you have trust and control issues. It might help to know a little bit more about what happened during your relationship that lead up to this breakup. Can you give us more detail so that we can understand your situation a bit better? Why do you think that she has BPD? Has she been diagnosed? Title: Re: break uo Post by: Mutt on October 11, 2016, 08:05:13 PM Hi lewdog100,
*welcome* I'd like to join Meili welcome you I'm sorry to hear that. Is this your first break-up with her? |