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HI, I am feeling kind of weird and sad today as I discover my ex and his gf have moved out of state. To her home town. They have been doing allot of traveling lately and spending money, which makes me mad when he has a pending lawsuit against me, claiming he is broke, while he owes me money. I asked my lawyer what to do there... .I just want that part over. In some ways I am relieved I do not have to worry about seeing him here anymore. I guess I feel even more left behind though : (   I understand that they like to make fresh starts to their lives to help forget the past. I just really am having a hard time thinking of him liking a completely different life stye than he had before. I understand all of the not knowing who they are part. I am just not convinced that having grown up one way, doesn't make that a part of their lives forever like us. I suppose maybe he would be happy leaving everything and living with out anything and not trying to keep up with the Joneses... .but long term, I don't know. He used to make fun of "those" people. Put them down. Maybe he was doing all the career advancing and into nice things thinking that he was impressing me, for all I know. I was not impressed as that would not be me either!  I never persuaded him to do anything but be happy and responsible. This gf has really taken him over and getting her way... .I can't help but wonder how long he will be satisfied with this and I am having a hard time understanding how he is not doing all that he has done before with all of the chaos... .yet, I suppose I may just not know about it. I bet she has him convinced that the grass is greener and we know how that turns out. Maybe they are both running away... .she is not divorced yet. She will be going back to the life she had before she got married. He told me her parents don't like him. Should be fun for him, lol  I shuttered when I saw a picture of him axe throwing on Facebook! She is into guns and knives and things like him... .I suppose he likes that. She will find out the hard way what he is like with this guns and knives when he is drunk! Scary... .