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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: SurvivorWithKids on October 16, 2016, 04:23:47 PM



Title: Advice on Protecting Kids
Post by: SurvivorWithKids on October 16, 2016, 04:23:47 PM
First post for a new member. I came here looking for suggestions on how to take care of my kids whom I share 50/50 with an ex-wife prone to Borderline rage, triangulating the kids, manipulation, etc.

Thanks.


Title: Re: Advice on Protecting Kids
Post by: Mutt on October 17, 2016, 10:50:25 AM
SurvivorWithKids,  


*welcome*

I have shared custody with my exuBPDw, I had a S5, S8, and D10 and we're separated for nearly three years and divorced for one year but the first year after the split there were a lot of hurt feelings and conflict, I had to stop the bleeding. I'm not saying that your situation is the same, everyone's situation and exe's are different but can you give us a little back story? Do you have a court order? How old are your kids? How long have you been separated? What are some of the issues?