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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Moselle on November 03, 2016, 10:53:32 PM



Title: Big day today. My new life begins.
Post by: Moselle on November 03, 2016, 10:53:32 PM
D day.

Divorce day. Today I move forward sans my BPD/ NPD ex.

It's a new life. I hand her problems back to her.


Title: Re: Big day today. My new life begins.
Post by: Turkish on November 03, 2016, 11:11:36 PM
This must feel liberating.   :)

Now it's you,  and you and the kids together as a new unit.  I found the feeling of this one of my biggest struggles,  the new life with them without her (living together).

Any plans,  or just taking it a day at a time?  


Title: Re: Big day today. My new life begins.
Post by: heartandwhole on November 04, 2016, 07:46:05 AM
Wow, Moselle. It IS a big day. How are you going to spend it? 

Imagine what joy is to come in your new life !

heartandwhole


Title: Re: Big day today. My new life begins.
Post by: bestintentions on November 04, 2016, 07:52:01 AM
Moselle - congrats!

bi


Title: Re: Big day today. My new life begins.
Post by: Larmoyant on November 05, 2016, 02:03:18 AM
Moselle, congratulations  . You got through it! Wishing you much happiness going forwards.


Title: Re: Big day today. My new life begins.
Post by: whirlpoollife on November 05, 2016, 11:48:11 PM
My first days of and after D day, I was numb.  It took some time to sink in that it was finally finished , for the divorce end of things. 
More power to you with the days ahead on inner strength and your once self , evolving.


Title: Re: Big day today. My new life begins.
Post by: Moselle on November 07, 2016, 05:27:13 AM
This must feel liberating.   :)

Now it's you,  and you and the kids together as a new unit.  I found the feeling of this one of my biggest struggles,  the new life with them without her (living together).

Any plans,  or just taking it a day at a time?  

It seemed quite tough on the girls. Although its been a long time coming. They were distant. My plans are to live a great life. Be excited by my opportunities and give massive and determined action to my dreams. There is much to do  :)

Wow, Moselle. It IS a big day. How are you going to spend it?  

Imagine what joy is to come in your new life !

heartandwhole

Thanks H&W. I spent the weekend imagining it. Love, intimacy, friendship, career success, being a great dad to my girls. Holidays, fun, laughter.

Time to deliver!


Title: Re: Big day today. My new life begins.
Post by: Moselle on November 07, 2016, 05:29:51 AM
Moselle - congrats!

bi

Thanks bi.

It was a big day.

Moselle, congratulations  . You got through it! Wishing you much happiness going forwards.

Thanks Larmoyant. I did make it through! Thank you. Lets go!

My first days of and after D day, I was numb.  It took some time to sink in that it was finally finished , for the divorce end of things. 
More power to you with the days ahead on inner strength and your once self , evolving.

Thanks Whirlpool. Its dawned on me a few days later, however the excitement is still there. Its time to build!