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Title: Tools for relationships... Post by: Skip on November 10, 2016, 10:44:14 PM Thoughts on this?
www.nicolamethodforhighconflict.com/flip3/nicolamethod/nicolamethod.html Title: Re: Tools for relationships... Post by: Meili on November 12, 2016, 09:50:35 AM I have printed the workbook and short ebook on ways to say things. I haven't had a chance to go through them yet, but once I do, I'll comment.
Title: Re: Tools for relationships... Post by: once removed on November 14, 2016, 11:52:14 AM it looks okay. constructive/productive and in line with the methods we teach. it sort of got better as i read. the anger-regulation sentence seemed weird and i couldnt imagine using it. the put down sentence is good, as is all the information/explaining in between.
Title: Re: Tools for relationships... Post by: Meili on November 14, 2016, 12:10:26 PM Yeah, the sentence does seem weird. I can imagine using it. I tried over the weekend, it didn't work as advertised. It was immediately spun back on me.
But, then again, I did actually do something to anger my x. Of course, that was weeks ago and she's still upset over it and uses it as the basis for all her anger. |