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Title: Hi all, my ex tried to call me through Whatsapp Post by: elfyguy on November 11, 2016, 01:37:13 PM So, some of you may recognise me. I sometimes post here and give feedback and news about my life, perhaps not nearly enough. Anyway... .
I was in the common area(kitchen) with the other students. Then, my phone rang and I saw I *just* missed 2 whatsapp calls from an unknown number. I think they were quick calls too. So I pressed it to call back and see who it was. When it enlarged(and loaded) I saw that it was a picture of my BPDex and her new partner, sitting on something; the picture was somewhat intimate. Anyway, either I cancelled the call straight away or she did. I proceeded to feel anger and bewilderment as I swore and said what the heck is this Bit... doing? I showed my fellow students and blocked her number. I think it's the second number I've blocked now, so it's either her boyfriend's number or a new one of her's. This was a few hours ago and I still feel somewhat angry. Why would she do this? Wtf is wrong with her? Btw, it was her birthday 2 weeks ago but I didn't send anything or say anything to her. It's been completely NC. Title: Re: Hi all, my ex tried to call me through Whatsapp Post by: One key on November 12, 2016, 03:37:34 AM She is not doing it to make you feel better.
That is clear. She might try to show you that she is now better of than she was with you. So her choices in her opinion were right for her. She might try to provoke a jealous reaction in you. She might try to keep the contact warm with you. What ever she does, it comes from a wired mind, it is erratic behaviour from a troublef person. Recognize what she is doing, dont try to understand it. It is un-understandable. You will be bizzy with it too much and she will crawl into your head. Where she should not be. |