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Title: BPD R/S Relapse Post by: nolisan on November 25, 2016, 09:14:19 PM I feel like an addict returning to a 12 step group after another failed experiment in managing his addiction. Not too worry ... .relapse is part of recovery. I didn't go as far down the rabbit hole this time. I bouncing back easier. I have tools from the last healing.
Yep ... .Noli found himself with another uBPD: a waife this time. The last was a queen / witch ... .much more dangerous. Same pattern ... .different channel. Same pull: rescuing. Same fear: Abandonment. Same attachment style: Avoidant. The end came suddenly with a text miscommunication. Today I'm grateful for it - saved me from digging a deeper hole - the hand of God. Still painful. Love hurts. I know I have grieving ahead. This is helping me right now: Metta Meditation https://vimeo.com/52819182 I may post more down the road. Title: Re: BPD R/S Relapse Post by: rfriesen on November 26, 2016, 01:56:04 AM Hi Noli,
Sorry to hear you had another painful experience. Good that you're more self-aware and feeling stronger about bouncing back this time. Can you tell us a little more about what makes you say she was uBPD? What happened in the relationship? |