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Title: Yearning for Peace and Quiet and Happiness Post by: RoseInBloom on November 28, 2016, 10:05:39 PM Is it possible for someone with BPD to climb out of their own private hell and re-establish love and trust and respect with a beloved one?
Title: Re: Yearning for Peace and Quiet and Happiness Post by: julie frances lloyd on November 28, 2016, 10:19:41 PM Hi,
I have been a long time lurker. I have an ex with BP traits and I think it is difficult to discuss all individuals with this diagnosis as though they were one person. People are unique, but it sounds like you are hurting and wanting some support so I thought I would reach out. You are not alone. Title: Re: Yearning for Peace and Quiet and Happiness Post by: julie frances lloyd on November 28, 2016, 10:27:32 PM With my ex, we were together for 7 years, we tried to do the friends thing. It was tricky, we relapsed a couple of times. Perhaps it is easier with friendships.
Title: Re: Yearning for Peace and Quiet and Happiness Post by: RoseInBloom on November 29, 2016, 12:37:43 PM Thank you. Do you have any advice? Books read? Counselors that helped the individual and the couple?
Title: Re: Yearning for Peace and Quiet and Happiness Post by: julie frances lloyd on November 29, 2016, 01:11:00 PM Hi,
Not knowing the specifics of the situation makes this difficult to answer. People are unique. |