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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: ICD on November 29, 2016, 10:13:01 AM



Title: BROKEN AGAIN
Post by: ICD on November 29, 2016, 10:13:01 AM
Hi there,

I'm experiencing a situation that has played itself over and over.My wife and soon to be ex is leaving for reasons that I guess are now acceptable but I'm having a very hard time accepting. She turned 50 today ,we have a 16 year old son together. Ive done everything a guy can do to keep it together. A normal person would have run away along time ago with what is seasonal mood swings and dislike , distancing herself from me. i know she is not good for me. I allow  to be played with high emotions on care and love for her. She becomes a sack of ice... .so cold and distant


Title: Re: BROKEN AGAIN
Post by: ICD on November 29, 2016, 10:18:56 AM
I'm just having a hard time. It just seems that being rational does not work with a irrational person. Any advice in coping and repairing myself... .


Title: Re: BROKEN AGAIN
Post by: Lucky Jim on November 29, 2016, 01:19:21 PM
Hey ICD, Welcome!  What makes you think that your W has BPD?  Fill us in, when you can.

LuckyJim


Title: Re: BROKEN AGAIN
Post by: Mutt on November 29, 2016, 07:46:10 PM
Hi ICD,

*welcome*

I'm sorry to hear that. It helps to talk to people that can relate with you. Are you talking about several break-up make up cycles? What's going on?