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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: tryingtohelp on December 21, 2016, 03:45:36 AM



Title: painted black ?
Post by: tryingtohelp on December 21, 2016, 03:45:36 AM
My BPD friend (diagnosed)  has simply stopped answering any of my communication attempts , text or email , no matter how nice I try to be , we have not had a falling out or anything of that sort,  (as unusual as that may seem :)   but she has just refused to respond.  About once a month she has just sent a nice little message saying some trivial little sweet nothing, but will not respond to my multiple replies,  this has been going for about 3 months now.  Maybe she is just pulling the line to see if I'm still there?

Has anyone experienced anything like this ?

I'm wondering if she will text on Christmas day to wish me a merry christmas or such-like ?  If she doesn't , maybe I won't contact her this time.

After 9 years of intense contact, she has just drifted away , she has often 're-cycled' me,  seems no matter how long you know a BPD , the weirdness never ends.   Maybe I have been painted black ?

Oh well , I am painting my Model T black , which will look great,  and I shall be getting on with other things which don't include her!    :thought:   


Title: Re: painted black ?
Post by: Naughty Nibbler on December 21, 2016, 03:59:55 PM
You will definitely get better mileage out of the black Model T.   :thought:

Perhaps find someone new to bring you joy, as you cruise the highways.  There is someone out there who will appreciate both you and the car.   |iiii