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In October I was granted an emergency order reserving all of BPD ex-wife parenting time with the exception that BPD could set up Therapeutic Visits(note: I have been divorced for 9 years so this order is all about parenting)  A GAL was appointed and for awhile he was buying her victim role and it sounded like he was on her side.  Over the holidays she came undone and started replying to all of my private emails to her about our parenting during this order to the GAL, her attorney, my attorney, her mom and her sister.  In the emails she called my insane and dangerously insane.  All I was telling her is that since she wouldn't be with the kids for Christmas she could mail them to my house and they would mail hers and they could open them together in private over facetime or skype.  I was also telling her for the 10th time to stop ignoring me and using our daughter to set up call times for her and the children, that that was our job as parents to work out.

Anyway, while I was at fedex on the 23 mailing the kids gifts to her house with them my daughter said "mommy said the reason we are not getting our gifts or seeing her is because you won't let her come over to our house Christmas morning.  I had sent BPD an email telling her that we have an order and to me it is inappropriate for my ex-wife who has an order for a reason to show up at my house Christmas morning.  Instead of replying to me she used my daughter to commit parental alienation.  When my daughter told me this I knew this was somehting for the GAL so I sent BPD an email copying GAL asking her if why she was telling the kids that the reason they were not getting gifts from her or her family and not seeing her was my fault.  I also asked her, based of past emails, if every email I sent her about our private parenting issues was then going to get diseminated to everyone including the chidlren.  The GAL almost instantly sent me an email(without copying her) asking for copies of the text messages I was referring to which I got right over to him.  4 days latter after Christmas she responded horribly saying she will not be pinned down for my lies and shame on me for not having the children call her parents.  The entire email was scolding me for things she created, she never asked the kids to call her parents when she talked to them for 30 minutes on Christmas day.  The crazy part is we were on our ski vacation and she ended the email by saying have a great trip! and signature line said "Best, Jane"  On that email she copied the GAL, her attorney, my attorney, her mom and her sister(Exactly what I was talking about!)

To top it all off the GAL finally identified the Therapist he wants for Theraputic Visits and the Therapist got a hold of me during my vacation and we set up a time form my inital intake.  During the email to me she made appoint that the children's mother and her had an appointment but she never showed up are called. 

Finally, it took two months but she could not keep this fake victim persona and my job is to just sit back, stay calm and speak when spoken too.