Title: to close to soon Post by: statsattack on January 05, 2017, 08:36:47 PM Has anyone on here had a situation where there BPDx got way to close way to soon and then started pushing away?
Was talking to my therapist today and I said she was scared of me abandoning her and she said she thinks she got way to close way to soon and freaked out. Title: Re: to close to soon Post by: sad but wiser on January 05, 2017, 09:11:47 PM Hmmmm... .even healthy people can get carried away and then back off in fear. My BPDX wanted to get "close" very quickly, emotionally and physically. I was raised on Disney and thought my prince had come. Love bomb... .on a pedestal, married a year later, pregnant in another 6 months, 8 weeks later could never do anything right again.
Moral of the story: real love takes time. |