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Title: How do you respond to a BPD? Post by: Confused1234 on January 07, 2017, 03:08:30 AM So my big question that has me perplexed from the article I just read suggest this "Consider how to respond to the person’s: Catastrophic predictions and threats, name-calling, labeling and negative judgments." So I want to rehearse how to respond when this happens ,How does a non BPD calming respond when being verbally abused ? I can't always walk away ,drive off, hang up or sit there and take it , what can I actually say ?
Title: Re: How do you respond to a BPD? Post by: DreamGirl on January 07, 2017, 02:44:07 PM Is there a specific trigger for him coming up?
Title: Re: How do you respond to a BPD? Post by: Professional on January 07, 2017, 06:04:47 PM Yes, it's definitely tough keeping calm, and walking away, but l've noticed that it does work. I tried it few times, and it worked, l was assertive stating the facts, and then calmly walked away. Being human, l'm not able to do this all the time, but l noticed that it does work when l use the strategy.
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