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Today Xw called me, I normally wouldn't answer but her number didn't come up on the phone display. She was defiantly not her self, she was kind and civil, " hi how are you today" I've known Xw for 12 years and absolutely never asks how I am doing, so my radar came on. She was asking for my brother in laws cell number. I asked her why and she said my sister was following her around the store making a video. I wouldn't give Xw the number so Xw said she was going to my sisters house. I did not get involved with Xw and her crazy talk any further, I hung up. I called my sister to for warn her, sister was pretty wound up. She said Xw was following her around the store being verbally abusive, bumping into her legs with the cart, my sister was trying to get away than Xw grabbed my sisters son by the arm trying to get his phone Bc he caught it all on video. Xw is getting crazier. My prediction of over a year ago is coming true, Xw is amping it up, getting her BF running around in circles protecting her. My brother in law had a very short fuse, a non Frenchman raised in a French county so he is no fan of Frenchman, if Xw French BF lands at my sisters door step it is going to be a very bad scene. Xw knows all of this, has this sly devious plan all made up in her head. My sister is in a position in our small town that if she reacts to Xw and Xw charges her she will loose her job. My Xw goes out of her way to harass my sister. My sister went to the RCMP to file charges of assault.

Having your awareness heightened here seems appropriate.

Obviously, if we care about someone, one of our first thoughts is to warn them of danger.

I think your sister did the right thing.

Thank you for sharing. I'd be interested to hear what others have to say about involving the authorities, or other options. I'd also be interested in hearing what the RCMP advised your sister to do.

In our town and county, every one knows everyone or you know someone in a persons family. We get along and live a good life. Today for example was a good day, s10 and I went to the rink, watched hockey, my sister was there, laughing enjoying her self, s10 enjoyed the game. A typical weekend until Xw assaulted my sister and her son. We do our thing, go along through life, avoid Xw as much as possible, if she's in the grocery store we don't go in but Xw stocks my sister so she will follow my sister in to the store. My family was almost tore to pieces by the uproar caused by Xw. We mended and became a family again. We have nothing to do with Xw we avoid her at all costs, don't talk to her, nothing. We are just healing and getting our lives moving but Xw just won't let go, she has her teeth sunk into us and won't let go. It's like she is on a mission to destroy my family relationship. Xw's father disowned his mother and siblings, caused terrible sorrow. Xw's disowned her mother and siblings, again caused lots of sorrow. Xw tried to get my family out of my life and made life hell for me in the process. Something is very deeply wrong but Xw will deny that her father disowned his mother and siblings. Xw's father was not named in the obituary when his sister died. He disowned her, did not talk to her for years, made no attempt to visit her when she was dying but Xw was all up in arms as to how ignorant it was not to name her father in the obit. But on the other hand when I brought it up to Xw I was lying and slandering her father. I'm glad I'm getting stronger for s10 every day and detaching from the crazy and not letting myself get sucked back into it.

Your ex assaulted both your sister and your nephew.  Is likely also caught on the store CCTV.  You've posted before about her stalking behaviors.  This goes beyond the pale and is completely unacceptable.  I'm glad that your sister finally took action. 

In the meantime,  what's going on with your time with your son?

Hi Turkish, access is going good. My family and I didn't let what happened yesterday affect our day. S10 and I went to my fathers for supper watched the hockey game, 6 of us had a very nice evening.