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Title: Realisation Post by: PlasticOno on January 31, 2017, 06:36:46 PM My mind opened up to the fact I was involved with a borderline person... .we broke up ... .,I am heart broken ... .I did everything wrong and drove her away... .I am in her dog house... .I know she feels the same ... .
Title: Re: Realisation Post by: earlyL on January 31, 2017, 06:40:46 PM Welcome to the BPD family, it sounds like you are in the right place. Can you tell us a bit more about the situation and why you feel you drove her away. We are all only human and you reacted as best you could. I am sure there are lots of people here that can help and support if you are able to give us some more detail on your situation?
LW Title: Re: Realisation Post by: PlasticOno on January 31, 2017, 06:46:42 PM Looks rookie mistake
Title: Re: Realisation Post by: PlasticOno on January 31, 2017, 06:53:33 PM Welcome to the BPD family, it sounds like you are in the right place. Can you tell us a bit more about the situation and why you feel you drove her away. We are all only human and you reacted as best you could. I am sure there are lots of people here that can help and support if you are able to give us some more detail on your situation? LW She does not know she is that way... .I screwed up cause .,I either tried to fix her problem ... .instead of listening... .or when she yelled at me for what I thought was no reason... .I invalidated her expression... .3 Year battle and now I see I could have help I feel like crap ... .thank you for response... .I am going to bed Title: Re: Realisation Post by: PlasticOno on February 04, 2017, 06:06:41 PM She contacted me ... .I am gonna let this go at her pace... .
I love her and know my ego got in the way too I know to back off now and let her breathe without me there I will let you know how this goes ... .if she takes me back... I want to marry her no matter I still love her ... . Title: Re: Realisation Post by: PlasticOno on February 05, 2017, 09:16:35 AM I decided for my sanity to walk away... .she started to lay into me about my going to a shrink and AA... .I want sometime to think
I did not argue or blow up back... .ask her how we could make it better From her view... .total explosion... ,... .I don't know what to say anymore... .,I will still come here .,.now I see a little bit clearer Wish I had found this place in the beginning or knew what it was called ... .thanks |