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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: Arella on October 03, 2024, 08:15:39 AM



Title: Death doesn’t become her
Post by: Arella on October 03, 2024, 08:15:39 AM
 :help: Thank you kindly for reading:
First time reaching out this way….desperately need advice from disowned parents of an adult bpd daughter.
Short version:
I’ve been *life severed* by my bpd daughter 5 yrs now. She’s late 20’s. Her father and I divorced when she was an infant. Yesterday he died suddenly. I reached out with benign condolences to her and received a vicious response.  
I later learned her paternal grandmother had also died this past April. Doesn’t leave many family members for her to lean on. No idea if she has support. At a loss as to how .. or if.. I can help her. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!


Title: How do you help a severed bpd daughter when the other parent dies??
Post by: Arella on October 03, 2024, 02:09:35 PM
:help: Thank you kindly for reading:
First time reaching out this way….desperately need advice from disowned parents of an adult bpd daughter.
Short version:
I’ve been *life severed* by my bpd daughter 5 yrs now. She’s late 20’s. Her father and I divorced when she was an infant. Yesterday he died suddenly. I reached out with benign condolences to her and received a vicious response.  
I later learned her paternal grandmother had also died this past April. Doesn’t leave many family members for her to lean on. No idea if she has support. At a loss as to how .. or if.. I can help her. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!