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Title: setting boundaries Post by: cape_rock on October 18, 2024, 01:33:58 PM :help: any advice on how to set boundaries. how should i respond or what should i do when my BPD partner goes into a fit of attacking condemnation on me with intense anger? I used to try to engage and defend, but lately i have been walking away and leaving the house.
Title: Re: setting boundaries Post by: once removed on October 18, 2024, 01:55:28 PM any advice on how to set boundaries avoid thinking of "setting boundaries" as a solution to a conflict. think of is as more of a lifestyle. this article really helps explain the difference, and theres a workshop discussion (for practical application) at the bottom of it: https://www.bpdfamily.com/content/setting-boundaries Excerpt how should i respond or what should i do when my BPD partner goes into a fit of attacking condemnation on me with intense anger? can you tell us more about whats going on, or a recent example? what does she say and do? what leads up to the explosions? how do you respond? |