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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Misspinky on February 08, 2017, 08:48:15 AM



Title: Mixed signals borderline bf
Post by: Misspinky on February 08, 2017, 08:48:15 AM
I have/had a boyfriend, we were really close and all of a sudden
He wanted to push everyone away, go to another city and leave everyone
behind. He couldn't handle things and felt nothing for anything.

I replied that it didn't need to be this way and that I would never hurt him
I also said that I want to be with someone who can talk about those feelings
with me. He said: I text you later. He never did, it has been 4 days

Now I posted on instagram: if someone doesn't want to be in my life then bye bye.
He immediately liked it and he has a drawing from internet about a woman and a man. I know he isn't seeing anybody, or I feel like he isn't

I feel like he is playing mind games right now, had a though upbringing and testing me. Can anyone help me with this?


Title: Re: Mixed signals borderline bf
Post by: Mutt on February 08, 2017, 04:11:33 PM
Hi Miss Pinky,

*welcome*

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He wanted to push everyone away, go to another city and leave everyone
behind.

I'm so sorry that this happened  It sounds like he ran away from everyone, did something happen in his life? Did a loved one pass away? Did he lose his job? Is there conflict?