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Title: My bpd husband episodes become so intense and this makes me very tired Post by: Klarasmith on January 01, 2025, 07:59:22 AM Hello everyone, this is my first post here . I am very happy I found a family suffering from the same issue so i can be understood here . My partner has bpd still not treated. The thing is I dont know how to deal with him I think he loves fighting and reaching the pick every fight he threaten me to leave the relationship, calling me names, verbal abuse , emotional abuse, changing the order of the fight just to make me appear the bad one . We reached a level I started to ask him to record the fight just to document the situation and no way you can change facts and the surprise once i start recording he stops doing this .what makes everything so bad is I get attachment issues after being with him I have a strong fear pf losing him . And I am experiencing something I wanna know if anyone of you had too every big event or Christmas, birthday, anniversary he ruins it he fights for anything just to ruin this event and then acussing me to be the one who ruined it , to be honest I am not good in holding my temper to specially after being with him he makes me lose my nerves.
Title: Re: My bpd husband episodes become so intense and this makes me very tired Post by: SamiSays on January 01, 2025, 10:56:49 AM Hi I am new here too. I can relate to everything you are going thru. My spouse does the same thing - wants to argue especially when he is drinking and angry. I try to stay calm and not argue back. It's taking a toll on my mental health. I have realized I need some emotional support from those like yourself that are going thru the same thing. It seems like no one else realizes how difficult it is to go thru this.
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