Title: An episode for uBPDw where she is totally calm, cold and in control Post by: olafinski on May 16, 2025, 05:20:05 AM Hi,
52 yo partner of an uBPD wife 50yo in perimenopause. Together for 18 years, one step-son 25, one son 14. I am experiencing a new thing - and episode with divorce threat, but my wife is fully in control or at least seems to be. She is talking the ussual trash and conspiracy theories and false "truths" as she always does, but there is no emotional outburst, yelling etc. Isn't interested in my point of view, dismisses everything I say as ussual. But it is all different somehow, controled and cold. Anyone else witnessed something like this? This kind of change of behaviour. |