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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: beebee on May 20, 2025, 02:07:50 PM



Title: hello. Im new
Post by: beebee on May 20, 2025, 02:07:50 PM
Hi Im Beebee
I have a daughter age 46 and a granddaughter age 25 {mother and daughter} who both have Borderline Personality Disorder.  I have only just found out about this group although I have wanted to find one for many years.  I`m not sure how it all works so would be grateful for any information which can help me please.   Thank you.


Title: Re: hello. Im new
Post by: kells76 on May 21, 2025, 11:13:31 AM
Hello and *welcome*

So glad you found us. Many members here are in a similar situation, with multiple family members with BPD. It's already a challenge with one person, so two can feel overwhelming.

I have a daughter age 46 and a granddaughter age 25 {mother and daughter} who both have Borderline Personality Disorder. 

It sounds like both of them received an official diagnosis -- is that true? How did they handle getting diagnosed (happy about it/relieved, in denial)?

Do either of them live with you?

I have only just found out about this group although I have wanted to find one for many years.  I`m not sure how it all works so would be grateful for any information which can help me please.   

A great place to start is our section of articles on When a teen or adult child has Borderline Personality Disorder (https://bpdfamily.com/portfolio-child). Take a look there when you have a moment.

Feel free to keep posting here -- both starting and continuing posting threads of your own, and replying in other members' threads. It's a great way to feel like you're not alone in your difficult situation.