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Title: New and helpless Post by: blimchu on July 06, 2025, 06:55:29 PM Hi everyone. I’m new here and feeling a little overwhelmed, but I’m really grateful this space exists.
I believe my spouse has borderline personality disorder, but he won’t acknowledge any issues or seek help. Most of the time, he projects all the blame onto me, and I’m constantly walking on eggshells. I’ve stayed in this relationship mostly because of our kids—I want to keep the family together and give them some stability. But it’s incredibly hard to live with someone who takes no accountability and turns every disagreement into a crisis or an attack. I’ve tried therapy, but I didn’t feel understood—some therapists just judged me for staying. What I really need is connection with people who understand what this feels like, without judgment. I’m here to learn, find emotional support, and hopefully regain some sense of myself. |