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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: denawes on August 19, 2025, 12:57:28 PM



Title: Partner has BPD and Fibromyalgia
Post by: denawes on August 19, 2025, 12:57:28 PM
Hello,

I don't know where to start.  My partner has BPD and Fibro.  Our relationship is going through a lot of turmoil and she does not know if she even loves me or wants to be with me.  She won't tell me to leave though.
I have been caught lying in the past and that has really hurt her.  Even though they were lies about smoking and other stupid little things, it was still a lie.  So the trust was broken along with her faith in me.  It has been a few months and it is not any better and I can't do anything right.  I don't know if I should give up or keep trying.  I don't want to give up because she has been through a lot of trauma so she has a lot of walls up.

thanks,