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Title: Just tired Post by: AngieHardy on October 13, 2025, 11:39:15 AM My daughter has BPD which really manifested when I got a divorce 13 years ago. And I’m just tired of dealing, handling, negotiating, giving in, settling boundaries etc etc
Title: Re: Just tired Post by: Sancho on October 14, 2025, 01:29:06 AM Hi AngieHardie
You have every right to be tired - if not totally done! I am convinced there is nothing like the journey alongside a BPD loved one. Is there any chance you can take a 'timeout'? After all these years, you could feel even more tired if you closed the door for a short time, but it can stop the slide into completely flatlining. If you can try including frequent, short timeouts and - if you can - stick to these as your health need. There are different types of timeouts. Do you have these already in your overstressed and demanding life? |