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Just need some support
Hello! I was in a shirt four month relationship with a woman who was amazing for the first two months. The trouble started small, she would be upset if I asked someone else for help or didn’t need her to go with me somewhere. We had a language barrier so I thought I could be that. She wanted me to live with her after two months, I thought it was too soon, but she was sweet and I got caught up thinking maybe it’s a fairtlytale and I’m pushing her away. Things seemed to get worse and insisted some space. She accused me of lying, tricking her and many other things that were not true. I felt bad for her, asked her to go to therapy she went once. At my next session, my therapist said she couldn’t ethical diagnose her after one visit, but that I should read about BPD because she may have traits. She broke up with me, three weeks later got back together. She has accused me twice of cheating when I was at work, I sent her groceries to be helpful she accused me of mocking her, one day I asked what she was doing and she said I was controlling her. She broke up with me again, calmed down and a day later broke up with me again. She is telling me I am a master of words because i try to tell her I care. She got mad because i was looking at condos instead of cooking with her and said i didn’t want to be part of her daily life…when I said I didn’t know going grocery shopping was important and I would go, she told me I was a liar and just agreeing to keep her. It sounds like a lot and it is a lot. I’m doing okay, a bit relieved it’s over, but I’m looking for people who can relate.