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Title: I am exhausted dealing with my BPD husband Post by: Exhausted! on November 18, 2025, 09:13:27 AM I am exhausted being in a 32-year marriage with a man that has BPD. Only recently has it been diagnosed. It would explain why our relationship has been the way it is, and that I'm not going "crazy".
I am ready to leave and still find that I am trying to get his reassurance that he loves me and doesn't want me to go. This isn't happening. In fact, I feel like I am abandoning him. I grew up with a narcissistic mother, which doesn't help things. We have been in weekly counseling for over 7 months, to not much avail. I can tell he is trying but I don't see real hope. I guess my question is what has anyone tried to help release this pattern of trying to "fix" them? |