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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: JsMom on November 25, 2025, 06:49:56 PM



Title: What helped you the most to begin healing
Post by: JsMom on November 25, 2025, 06:49:56 PM
I'm just starting to look at tools and info. I'm not techy so it'll take me a bit. I'm just now accepting my part on a deep level, for my sons bpd. Yes, there are genetic components. Being my dad and my son's dad. But because of my own wounds/issues whatever. I raised him in a home that wasn't emotionally safe for him. Top that off his babysitter (a friend and her husband) molested him. I've tried to make up for the pain I caused by rescuing.... It hasn't worked, healed, made up for  or changed his pain. What do I do that honors him and takes care of myself too?  I'll keep reading topics on this site. I appreciate any tips, advice or a direction where to start. Thank you.