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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: zzkkll on November 26, 2025, 01:50:00 PM



Title: How long should i wait after breakup and no contact?
Post by: zzkkll on November 26, 2025, 01:50:00 PM
Hi! This is a relationship of 2 years. i'm (M26) she's (F27)

So, we had an argument and broke up with her. I said some hurtful stuff and she did too, because we were mad at eachother.

We went NC for about 4 days, tried to contact her, she was very cold, gave her flowers, thanked me and told me the flowers were gorgeous, but said she didn't want to be in a relationship and i needed to understand that, plus she felt like we weren't getting along (due to life problems, it impacted our relationship).

How long should i wait for trying to contact her again? I told her i'm truly sorry and that i want to show her my feelings, and that it's common for a relationship to have its ups and downs, but she won't listen to reason, and i don't think she suddenly stopped loving me from one day to another... even though we were in a bad spot for a few weeks