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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: townhouse on December 22, 2025, 07:31:42 PM



Title: Update on BPD life
Post by: townhouse on December 22, 2025, 07:31:42 PM
Haven’t been here for ages. Life goes on with my BPD husband.

18 months ago he sold his (our) holiday home and gave his daughter all these funds plus his savings because she left her high paying job without having another job to go to. She has spent some of his money to live on no expense spared manicures, haircuts, expensive food, restaurants including a trip to Europe for 3 weeks.

Now 18 months later, she has got employment again, starts in February. It will be interesting to see if the money gets returned to husband. In a way him having no money has been less worrying for me as he couldn’t buy something totally mad. He did try to buy a block of land about 9 months ago and actually asked her for his money back in a fit of disregulation, but it was not forthcoming.

Anyway, we push on with ups and downs in life
 Best wishes to all here for the New Year.