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Title: Update on BPD life Post by: townhouse on December 22, 2025, 07:31:42 PM Haven’t been here for ages. Life goes on with my BPD husband.
18 months ago he sold his (our) holiday home and gave his daughter all these funds plus his savings because she left her high paying job without having another job to go to. She has spent some of his money to live on no expense spared manicures, haircuts, expensive food, restaurants including a trip to Europe for 3 weeks. Now 18 months later, she has got employment again, starts in February. It will be interesting to see if the money gets returned to husband. In a way him having no money has been less worrying for me as he couldn’t buy something totally mad. He did try to buy a block of land about 9 months ago and actually asked her for his money back in a fit of disregulation, but it was not forthcoming. Anyway, we push on with ups and downs in life Best wishes to all here for the New Year. Title: Re: Update on BPD life Post by: kells76 on January 06, 2026, 04:01:44 PM Happy New Year and thanks for coming back to update us.
Am I remembering correctly that you and your H have separate finances? So true, all we can do is push on with what life sends our way. Wishing you a more peaceful 2026! Title: Re: Update on BPD life Post by: townhouse on January 10, 2026, 05:51:44 PM Thanks kells76
Yes we do have seperate finances and the house we live in is in my name. I guess he could divorce me and try to take half of everything I have and I cannot deny that this is often in the back of my mind when I think I just can’t stand it any longer and want out. At other times when we are relatively “happy” I try to live my life with him surrounded with family, friends and grandchildren and it’s not a bad life. |