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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: AliceAla on December 30, 2025, 03:19:15 AM



Title: Aggression
Post by: AliceAla on December 30, 2025, 03:19:15 AM
We've been together for almost two years. I think my husband has BPD (not officially diagnosed, but all the symptoms match except for self-harm). When he has a day off and I'm working, he starts drinking uncontrollably. Because he's alone and he's feeling unwell. When I come home in the evening, he demands sex nonstop, and nothing happens. If I say I don't want to or can't for various reasons, he insults me with harsh words and makes me cry. He doesn't listen to any arguments. I'm so tired of this. He has no friends, no acquaintances. Everyone has "dumped" him. He's endlessly jealous for no reason, trying to drive me crazy "so I don't leave for another man." Is there any way to stop this? I can't sleep normally for 3-4 days.