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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: looking up on February 13, 2017, 03:06:35 PM



Title: trying to decide to stay or go
Post by: looking up on February 13, 2017, 03:06:35 PM
Child of an alcoholic narcissist. Married a man with BPD traits. Have gone to counseling for years myself. He will not go. He gets better. He gets worse. He gets better. I get confused. I kept myself busy and away with my career for years. Now I'm home more and wondering if I should just leave but after 31 of marriage I have no doubt it would get ugly. Any similar stories out there?   


Title: Re: trying to decide to stay or go
Post by: Lucky Jim on February 14, 2017, 11:26:40 AM
Hey looking up, Welcome!  I like your moniker.  Whether to stay or go is a decision only you can make, though we can help you find the right path for you.  What would you like to see happen?  What are your gut feelings?  Let us know if you have any particular questions.

LuckyJim