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My daughter who will be 33 in a few months time did not even complete High School.   Drugs and Boys were more interesting.   I was a Registered Nurse and her father an Engineer.  Neither of us could control her but boy, did she control us with her incessant demands for money - vanity being her obsession.   Her father has gone.   I have bought her a car and supported her on her never-ending wild goose changes.   I will NOT buy the story that BPD is due to childhood abuse.  Her vicious anger is out of control. I live on the coast in South Africa.   She disappeared inland to Johannesburg.   She called the police and an ambulance to tell that I was committing suicide.   I was asleep.  I had not spoken to her for a month.   Her threats and "I know you hate me" are never-ending.   I have started to have chest pain.   Her insults are unbelievable.   She is leaving my house in ten days and expects me to sign a lease for an apartment for her in Cape Town.   She cant stay still for five minutes.  She has told social workers that I am neglectful, abusive, an "alcoholic" and that I groomed her into prositution.   She has told people that I am a ketamine addict.  Then an Opiod addict.   I dont use any medication besides a headache tablet now and again.   Don't waste your time sobbing into your tea because the BPD Monster has gone.   Block all contact and get on with what's left of her life - the pieces she did not manage destroy.    Last night she came into my room holding her phone - she had downloaded an app - and asked me if I knew my IQ -- I do - 135 - she claimed to have an IQ140.   This from an idiot who can barely write.    Long story short - she is now going to work as a stripper.   Not my idea but at 18 she can do what she wants.   She has destroyed my name in the small town that I  live in, I have lost friends because I kept rescuing her.  She has even beaten up my friends - one a 63 year old woman like myself.   Dont look for answers.   Get the BPD Monster the hell away from you, move if you can, change your phone numbers and never look back.