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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: Yochana1950 on March 02, 2026, 11:38:17 PM



Title: Adult Son--wife left him to be safe.
Post by: Yochana1950 on March 02, 2026, 11:38:17 PM
I finally understand why I struggled raising this son.  Narcisstic BPD.  His low self esteem wife has left (hopefully to not return immediately).  She is willing to seek counsel together but he is not willing.  I need a counselor to help me navigate.  My daughter in law will be better without him with their 3 kids 6,yr.4yr,6months but my son who has always been in a good work situation,home, provision, etc is at risk to live out his "fantasies" and loose not only his marriage but all that has been good because he doesn't realize he is wacko in his thinking. I would like to find a counselor in my area or online.  Don't know if I can say what city? I not trying  to coerce my daughter-in-law into staying but I do need wise counsel how she, I, and my other children should move forward to make the situation the best for all concerned!