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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Parent, Sibling, or In-law Suffering from BPD => Topic started by: wantmorepeace on April 13, 2026, 08:01:13 AM



Title: Putting myself first
Post by: wantmorepeace on April 13, 2026, 08:01:13 AM
Finally, after years and years of people telling me to do this, yesterday, I finally got what putting yourself first looks like -- not obsessing over how the upbpd is going to react to or feel about what I do/say, but thinking about what I want.  And understanding that I have every right to do so.  It sounds so trite but what an amazing feeling. 

And still I see today that I have to keep reminding myself of this.  Which I will.