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Title: Am I the only one to conceal or even lie about facts to avoid conflict? Post by: Lauters on May 04, 2026, 05:05:56 AM My partner has a lot of characteristics of emotional dysfunctionality (or higher functional invisible PBD, what's in a name after all?)
As the code 'red' days are almost omnipresent the last months, I get so tired of her R&B episodes (raging & blaming), that I notice that in order to avoid additional conflict, I started to conceal or even lie about things. I'm concious that my behaviour is wrong, and sometimes when the facts that have been kept hidden, accidently still come out, the situation even amplifies (of course, I'm not thrustworthy anymore). In 'Stop walking eggshels', the advice is given to wait for a 'good' moment to discuss a difficult issue. But sometimes, you don't get the opportunity to wait for that moment, anbd then the situation excalates even more. So, I just want to know if I am the only one behaving like this: concealing or even lying, and hoping that a difficult moment will pass by quitly? |