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Title: Help - 20 y marriage with UBPDw has changed me Post by: olafinski on September 20, 2026, 04:50:18 PM Hi to all you good folks!
Though I am in a much better place now compared to my first posts some 10 years ago, I just realised how living with my ubpd wife has changed me. I learned intuitively quite early, before discovering this community, how to handle my wife and how to adjust to this kind of relationship. But couple of days ago I had a moment of self realisation when I have realised that more and more I am becoming the man I act to be in order to keep things as quite as possible here in our home, especially when our 16yo son is close. If anyone had a similar realisation and has some insights or helping words I would truly appreciate it. |